As much as it might hurt to do it, sometimes you have to delete those old chats which camouflage themselves as sweet nothings. I know they feel like tokens of sweet memories and moments of connection and maybe they were at one point and gave you a big ‘high’ , but you can’t be storing them as pebbles in a pot when the water you thought would quench your thirst has already dried. Some things just last for a season.
Rohan
I read about destination addiction somewhere. We are addicted to our goals /targets/wishes so much that we deny the presence of happiness in the present . We teach ourselves that I’ll be happy only when I get good grades , only when I clear my interview , only when I get what I desire and so on.
By accepting these thoughts , we limit the possibility of happiness existing right here right now . Even if you achieve what you want , just imagine the amount of anxiety and numbness you are putting yourself through in order to ACHIEVE happiness and after that you’ll have another desire and once again postpone your happiness. There is something fundamentally wrong with the idea of achieving Happiness as a core truth, we must be happy and then get HAPPIER by getting what we desire.
The only way to achieve happiness is by choosing to be happy with what you are , what you have ,or the fact that you actually are ! Target/Desire oriented happiness would be a lifelong chase and it just doesn’t end .
You need to be happy now and then be Happier ! 🌈
P.S. Smile for me 🙂
Much love 💖
xoxo
Rohan 🌌
We know about Lightwork, it involves being positive, spreading more love and light, vibrating higher, being in alignment and all that amazing stuff which makes us feel good and lighter on a soul level and blesses the world in the same way 💛💛💛
What about shadow work though ? According to my experiences, I believe it involves healing the wounded parts of your being by facing some ugly truths and repressed painful memories, to try and rid yourself of that pain for good , and boy does it get dirty.
As messy and horrible it might be at times , it’s essential to live a better life and do more authentic Lightwork. It’s important because when you’ve had to face and heal the most troubled parts of yourself, you’ll know true compassion and divine love. I dare to say this now, the deeper your shadow work has been, the brighter your Lightwork will be.
I won’t even try sugarcoating it coz I know there are times it has gotten real ugly and terrible to handle but that only brings us closer and closer to the blessed lives we so divinely deserve.
You can do the shadow work in whichever way you’re guided to, but one thing is guaranteed, it makes you feel fragile and vulnerable, because that’s the whole purpose of it, getting to that place where you can experience that innocence, truth and purity that you can be at peace with yourself and your journey, especially in that moment.
Sometimes it can leave you with doubts, about yourself and your worthiness because that highly sensitive state is when you have your guards down. That’s when it’s most important to be both unspeakably and vocally kind to yourself and giving yourself the loving kindness you need.
Thwart those negative voices when they try to creep up on you at your vulnerable best by choosing positive thoughts like ‘I am worthy of Love’ and ‘ I’m divinely learning’. As shaky as you might feel you have to be assertive and affirmative at that time love. You have to do it for you. You have to be your strongest support.
Remember that you aren’t alone. Call upon your Angels to comfort you. They’re always there and love you unconditionally. It’s enough for the Divine that you’re participating in your healing and trying to forgive yourself and letting go. Seek their help. You deserve it.
It’s a process, it takes time and remember you’re never truly alone and everything is happening in perfect divine order and timing. Blessed be 💖💖💖
Rohan 😇
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Whenever you’re being thoughtful, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re honoring your emotions, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re lighting up the world, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re smiling at the skies, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re making your heart Happy, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re Honoring the inner Goddess’ Power, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re Glorifying the inner God’s Sensitivity, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re being kind, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re being Passionate, you’re being Wonderful.
Whenever you’re being Wonderful, you’re being Beautiful 💖😇😍
Rohan
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I looked in the mirror and said, “It’s me…the one who has been there all along. The one who has literally been present in all those battles. The one who suffered with you, the one who soared with you. I’m the one who cried with you, I’m the one who laughed with you. I’ve always been here even when you wanted otherwise. I’ve listened to your rants,I’ve seen you become your Buddha. I’ve always been happy when you’re happy to your core. Please love me,I deserve it..Please accept me for we are truly the same..My eyes moistened just like yours right now..It has always been us and our love is the truest…That smile looks Fab on us 😇” I looked in the mirror and said, “It’s me…”
Rohan 💖
We all remember those days When a little mischief went a long way When the trickster in us couldn’t keep the trouble at bay We all remember those days…
We all remember those days When we used our guts for a glorious time When our pride rightfully crossed the line We all remember those days…
We all remember those days When some kind words opened our hearts like magic When we realized that dreams are more stardust than logic We all remember those days…
We all remember those days When we figured out that our mind and heart need one another When we thought to feel and felt to think tother We all remember those days…
We all remember those days When our healing wounds turned to wisdom When we used our voice to bless this kingdom We all remember those days…
We all remember those days When we ourselves fulfilled our craving for love When our happy tears caused us to smile and look above We all remember those days…
We all remember those days When things finally fell into place When we understood life a little better & like fine wine we aged We all remember those days…
Rohan
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