Experiential wisdom and realizations

First be happy , then get HAPPIER ! , Quotes by Rohan 32

​I read about destination addiction somewhere. We are addicted to our goals /targets/wishes so much that we deny the presence of happiness in the present . We teach ourselves that I’ll be happy only when I get good grades , only when I clear my interview , only when I get what I desire and so on. 

By accepting these thoughts , we limit the possibility of happiness existing right here right now . Even if you achieve what you want , just imagine the amount of anxiety and numbness you are putting yourself through in order to ACHIEVE  happiness and after that you’ll have another desire and once again postpone your happiness. There is something fundamentally wrong with the idea of achieving Happiness as a core truth, we must be happy and then get HAPPIER by getting what we desire.
The only way to achieve happiness is by choosing to be happy with what you are , what you have ,or the fact that you actually are ! Target/Desire oriented happiness would be a lifelong chase and it just doesn’t end . 
You need to be happy now and then be Happier ! 🌈

P.S. Smile for me 🙂 
Much love 💖

xoxo

Rohan 🌌

Let’s talk shadow work , Quotes by Rohan 31 

We know about Lightwork, it involves being positive, spreading more love and light, vibrating higher, being in alignment and all that amazing stuff  which makes us feel good and lighter on a soul level and blesses the world in the same way 💛💛💛

What about shadow work though ? According to my experiences, I believe it involves healing the wounded parts of your being by facing some ugly truths and repressed painful memories, to try and rid yourself of that pain for good , and boy does it get dirty.

As messy and horrible it might be at times , it’s essential to live a better life and do more authentic Lightwork. It’s important because when you’ve had to face and heal the most troubled parts of yourself, you’ll know true compassion and divine love. I dare to say this now, the deeper your shadow work has been, the brighter your Lightwork will be.

I won’t even try sugarcoating it coz I know there are times it has gotten real ugly and terrible to handle but that only brings us closer and closer to the blessed lives we so divinely deserve.

You can do the shadow work in whichever way you’re guided to, but one thing is guaranteed, it makes you feel fragile and vulnerable, because that’s the whole purpose of it, getting to that place where you can experience that innocence, truth and purity that you can be at peace with yourself and your journey, especially in that moment. 

Sometimes it can leave you with doubts, about yourself and your worthiness because that highly sensitive state is when you have your guards down. That’s when it’s most important to be both unspeakably and vocally kind to yourself and giving yourself the loving kindness you need. 

Thwart those negative voices when they try to creep up on you at your vulnerable best by choosing positive thoughts like ‘I am worthy of Love’ and ‘ I’m divinely learning’. As shaky as you might feel you have to be assertive and affirmative at that time love. You have to do it for you. You have to be your strongest support.
Remember that you aren’t alone. Call upon your Angels to comfort you. They’re always there and love you unconditionally. It’s enough for the Divine that you’re participating in your healing and trying to forgive yourself and letting go. Seek their help. You deserve it.
It’s a process, it takes time and remember you’re never truly alone and everything is happening in perfect divine order and timing. Blessed be 💖💖💖

Rohan 😇
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Emotional Healing Cheatsheet 

  • Journal about the experiences which caused you pain,write about how you felt. Keep it uncensored, it’s for your raw expression of the experience. Pour it out and then rip it apart.
  • Forgive yourself for your past mistakes,you were Learning.
  • Truly believe that you are worthy of healing and moving on to live a better life.
  • Have patience with yourself and trust in the process,the aim is to make sure your healing is wholesome and holistic and it can take time.
  • Forgive others to set yourself free and feel light hearted. Have faith in letting go of the pain.
  • Connect with nature, it’s inherently healing, and take care of your physical and mental health.
  • Be more kind and loving towards yourself and then extend it outwards.
  • Do more of what makes genuinely feel happy,on a soul level, it’s got to make your heart sing with joy.
  • Identify and let go of obsolete and draining patterns.
  • Adopt and Cultivate a healthier mindset and self loving emotional patterns. Peace of mind, optimism and choosing happiness are the foundations and functionalities of a better life.


Rohan

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Making peace with ‘time’, Quotes by Rohan 30

Oftentimes in life we think that we’ve wasted time or perhaps some ignorant people who have no idea of what we’ve been through try to make us feel that way. Whether it’s about the time you took to recover or when you’re just sitting one day and thinking that you probably took too long for something or simply just wasted time that way. 

I truly believe that we experience what we need to so it can prepare us to get where we want to. It’s not gonna make sense, will even lead to frustration sometimes, but hear me now, your soul knows what it gets itself into and the purpose of that too. Maybe you chose to experience that thing so that you can heal from it, leading to a much deeper inner healing and learn from it, so that you can guide others along the way. On a mission so Divine, there’s nothing like wasting time. So stop thinking like that and don’t even think about believing that, it’s the only way you’re gonna truly waste time. 

As difficult as it might sound for some, you have to make peace with it so that you can truly honor the healing and learning of your soul, which is a big part of your divine assignment here. 

Simply do not listen to people who don’t get it or didn’t​ go through it when they try to make you feel lesser or inadequate, simply because they’re ignorant or judgemental. They’re probably there in your experience so that you learn how to assert the strength of your character and the sacredness of your journey.

You know how real was the pain you felt, and the best thing you can do to heal is to love and forgive yourself, so that you can move on in your life to much happier times, which definitely await you glorious and strong child of the Divine. 💚😇🔱💖🙏

Love and Light

Rohan

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Do you Remember 

Do you remember crying so much that you felt drained ;do you remember laughing so much that your belly pained…

Do you remember when you chose tears over rage;do you remember when you indeed felt the whole world’s a stage…

Do you remember that least expected but well deserved apology;do you remember that serene calm after what seemed a catastrophe…

Do you remember going through the day when you just didn’t feel like;do you remember lying on the bed  so tired of sitting tight…

Do you remember knocking your heart and meeting truer you;do you remember just having fun to  fill life with hue… 

Do you remember when you saw the afternoon moon;do you remember or is it too soon ? 

Rohan 


9 important lessons I learned in the last ‘9’ year , aka 2016

Prologue : For those of you who follow numerology, I’m sure you know that 2016 was a 9 universal year and boy you would’ve felt it, I certainly did. For the uninitiated, in numerology we have 9 year cycles, and 2016 was the end of the previous 9 year cycles, therefore the inescapable themes were endings ,letting go and transformation. I went through a lot emotionally and mentally last year. Funnily enough in Dec 2015 I felt I had stuff figured out, little did I know that 2016 would hit so hard.I had a weird n unpleasant gut feeling when I started My graduationin 2013 and it finished last year, a 9 year is about things destined to end, coincidence much ? I don’t think so. After a lot of conflict, tears and journaling, I decided to extract and summarize the  9 Meaningful lessons I learned and quite literally experienced last year.Excuse me if this blogpost is a bit long coz it’s definitely useful and worth it.

  1. Mental Peace & Harmony comes from accepting and monitoring all parts of yourself. Don’t mistake your shadow tendencies for darkness, since they’re there to help you grow.We switch in and out of the greys.
  2. The only quick fixes that work when it comes to personal development are consciously choosing positivity and gratitude in the present moment.
  3. Knowledge indeed is Power,we feel powerful when we choose to practice it and apply it well.
  4. You don’t need to know all the answers at once.Learn to embrace the uncertainty.When the student is ready,the teacher does appear and all is indeed revealed in the perfect divine timing and order.
  5. It’s not our job to ‘fix’ others, in doing so we meddle with their path and spiritual journey.Our job is to teach and guide them with integrity and detachment, to keep the stress away.Everyone is their own Savior,we are just helped by Angels along the path.You’re only responsible for your own spiritual development.
  6. It’s absolutely Divine and spiritual to outgrow others.Don’t even think of getting ego into it , and for the intelligent ones,you don’t need to feel guilty about it at all.Moving forward in your life isn’t an act of betrayal bit abandonment but rather a necessary act of self love and divine purpose fulfillment.
  7. You can’t really love others genuinely unless you love yourself.Self Love leads to world love.
  8. Nothing is worth your happiness.The kind of happiness that you feel deeply and you know is true.Nothing,not even other’s expectations.
  9. Seeing things from a spiritual perspective rather than an egotistical perspective definitely helps and keeps your mind in the right place.

What are the lessons that you learned last year? Enlighten the world ! 
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Much love 

Rohan 💖

Decoding Superstitions,my experience,my style.

Prologue : The following article has been written after the writer suffering from overwhelming anxiety problems due to dangerously obsessing over superstitions.Till the time he decided, it’s Payback time.

People get superstitious when they don’t understand the fact,the universal truth that everything is happening in perfect divine timing and order. They get superstitious when they let themselves believe that everything should be happening in the order and timing that their ego desires. 

When they are met with disappointment,they start playing the blame game on a whole different level , which consists of placing the blame on time, circumstances, a particular incident and even a projection of their unresolved  fears , in order to satisfy and protect their egos, falsely thinking that it’s a shield,unaware that it’s a glass which is bound to cut them deeper and deeper,everytime they go over it mentally,verbally or physically,again and again and again. 

What’s even worse is when the glass cuts them so deep that eventually the pain numbs that part of their consciousness and goes further into their subconscious,which causes habitual and compulsive self destructive thought patterns,beliefs and consequent actions.What harms us as a whole is the fact that it’s passed on to the future generations, under the illusion of it being a shield, when in fact it’s a terrible kind of glass whose pieces on being shared and practiced as rituals,act like seeds which cause even more harm and damage,piercing the ones who embody it deeper and deeper.This is how latent pain and chaos is transferred and this is how fears are inherited.

We think superstitions are a form of self protection, but when one gets obsessed with them,they can turn out to be the most nerve wrecking form of self destruction.

This cycle is broken by Really questioning whether a belief is based in love or fear and really rationalizing the hell out of those intrusive thoughts,thinking our way through and out of fear and chucking them out of our heads and belief systems,which breaks the patterns of self destructive thought, belief and actions. Eventually,belief systemson being worked upon correctly and thoroughly; collectively uplift the universal consciousness and leads to a master shift which comes forth as a collective evolution from fear based programming to liberation based in faith and love.

The process of weeding,is definitely painful,because it requires us to pull out that shard of glass which has cut one so deep that,in the process we start becoming more and more aware of our deeply embedded pains as we completely work upon extracting them. This process is extremely important for healthy and soulful living and truly ascending to the prime level of well being where our existence is pure bliss,which expands as we allow it and work upon it more and more and guide our fellow souls to navigate their human experiences peacefully and happily…

Remember and truly believe, Spirit is ALWAYS meant to enlighten us,

 uplift us and empower us in our thoughts,beliefs and actions,always leading us to eternal peace and bliss… 🙏💖💎😇🔱

Thank you 

Rohan 

Thoughts about Reflections…

Reflections are about looking back on your life,on your past,with the aim of understanding and bringing to light what you’ve learned from your experiences and with improved and increased mental power that you have now(well earned), interpreting it and drawing inferences in an objective, non judgemental,wise,self loving and self kind way.

Though they have their roots in the past,they are present and future oriented. Their purpose is to help us live better,happily,and move forward.As opposed to dwelling and wallowing over our pasts which keeps us stuck as they are pain and regret oriented, Reflections are meant to be used as fuel and are freedom and growth oriented.

Reflections are all about living more intelligently and awarely in the present and serve as well wrested positive guidance for moving forward in a happier,calmer and better way.They are meant to facilitate mindfulness and soulful living.

It’s really about juicing out your past and filtering it to remove nonsense and to keep the Awesome stuff to use in your life.That’s how you use imagery 😂lol

Love 💖

Rohan 

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